Tuesday, March 4, 2014

HOUSE: 2 months down and *blank* more to go!

Oh boy. So us silly first-time homebuyers thought "Let's move-in by mid-February. We could probably even get in by early February!" Well it's been 2 months and all I can say is "HA!" Let's repeat that: "HA!" I have that lovely little list of what to do before we move in ... well it's grown longer. While it's true that we were lackadaisically putting in work here and there for the first month, we really didn't know how much time it would take. So where are we now? Let's recap room by room:

LIVING ROOM:
That fireplace and I have had a love-hate relationship. For sure, I definitely hate people who paint natural stone, rough-cut brick to be exact. I also have made some friends at Sherwin Williams and the Ace Hardware. After trying several different products, I finally found that Peel-Away is the most effective product out there. So the fireplace is almost done. About another 4 days of work on it and I'm going to call it quits. It's not perfect but it's better than it was. At least now you can tell that it is a red brick fireplace - for a while there, you couldn't tell what color the brick was through the layer of thinned paint.

My father has taken down the wall by the stairs, thus opening the room up a bit. He wanted to further open the room (visually) by taking down the ceiling above the walls and rebuilding it so that it sloped from the front door to the second floor. He (and my mother) were NOT happy that I put my foot down about not doing this. His reasoning was (semi) valid: "might as well do it now since no one is living here yet." However, my inside response was "but if we keep adding to the project, NO ONE is ever going to live here!" He capitulated and the ceiling will stay in tact.

The stairs are really coming together. There's a 5"x6" gap in the floor from where the wall was removed and the hardwood begins. We're either going to find a decorative tile to put in there (my idea) or find/have someone whittle us a decorative claw to attach to the base of the banister to give an extra meaning to the phrase "foot of the stairs" (his idea).

KITCHEN:
Oddly enough, the kitchen is the least of our focus. My dad took out the dishwasher or first day there. The wallpaper came down in the first 2 weeks. I spackled some holes. Someone sanded and spackled some more. So now we just need paint and retile the floor. The cabinets, countertop, and stove are ugly but functional so we're going to keep those worms canned.

BATHROOM:
Can we say "can of worms?" The mere re-tiling of the shower wall has resulted in a full tear-down of all walls to studs. The reason for the bowing on one of the shower walls was because the dry-wall was rotted. Let me tell you, it's a bit disconcerting to see your fiancee sitting in the tub using a dustpan to shovel rubble out of the tub. The ceiling will also come down. Brand new bathroom, here we come!

UPSTAIRS:
So we thought that the wallpaper was confined to the first floor and that the upstairs would simply need a coat of paint. Well, the previous owners decided to paint over the original wallpaper. Where we dry-stripped the first floor wallpaper in about 2 hours. The upstairs bedrooms are proving to much more difficult and time consuming. My future in-laws have pretty much taken care of all the wallpaper removal, cleaning, spackling, and sanding. I'll have another post on the wallpaper but here's a sample of what we found upstairs under the paint.

Will update with photos in the next few days.

WEDDING: (venue) Stonehurst - Robert Treat Paine Estate


Stonehurst is an old historic home designed by Frederick Olmsted and H.H Richardson so the outside is constructed of huge stones with a Gothic Revival flair to it. The house itself and grounds are beautiful (especially for a spring wedding). It's technically a museum so there are plaques on the walls that explain the architecture, reasons behind decorating choices, and more about the family in general. Since the fiancee and I are huge nerds, we had a blast visiting here!

Sloping lawn
The function director, Marcia Goodwin, is an amazing wealth of knowledge as well as hilarious. I had read other posts that said that she's mean and rubs people the wrong way but I found that though she may be gruff, she knows what she's talking about and has plenty of advice to share. She knows vendors, prices, what's a good deal, what's too expensive, and how to get a church to let us have a wedding where we're not parishioners.
Main dining room

Bay window in dining room

Another shot of the dining room

Wall in the dining room

Seating area in the front foyers

Front Entrance

View from the front entrance









Stonehurst - Robert Treat Paine Estate
Location: Waltham, MA
Capacity: 150 guests
Site Fee: $2800 for a Friday, $3500 for a Saturday, $3200 for a Sunday
Food: accepts most caterers
Alcohol: Open bar only. Town of Waltham doesn't allow cash bars on public property.

Front staircase
The stairs yet again
PROS:

  • Stone patio outside that overlooks a sloping green lawn is very pretty and would be perfect for the cocktail hour.
  • Amazing inside and outside photo ops.  
  • LOVE LOVE LOVE the front staircase for the formal wedding photo. 
  • Several giant fireplaces that are gorgeous.... really, just amazing architecture and decorations that are fun to look at.
  • You get Marcia who will help you coordinate everything. 
Bay window - I think this is near the bar

Cut-through room between food and seating






Bar staging area








Fireplace in the room where the food would be set up

















CONS:

  • Apparently, our nice little 110-130 person wedding has turned into 150+ <EEK!> and this place can only accommodate 150. 
  • Even with 150 people, the dining tables are separated into 2 different rooms. The fiancee didn't love the idea of having 10 tables in the main dining room and another 5 in the foyer. Granted, there's a giant open doorway between the 2 rooms.... I actually thought that it might be nice to let our friends sit apart from our (mostly my) families

  • At the top of the stairs 
    Cool table upstairs

    Bridal bathroom

    View from upstairs window